Book Review of Angels: Who They Are and How They Help–What the Bible Reveals by David Jeremiah

“Another enjoyable, factual, relevant book from David Jeremiah.”

Drawing from some of the greatest ‘Heroes of Faith’, Dr. Jeremiah presents ‘Angels: Who They Are and How They Help–What the Bible Reveals’.

Many believers mistakenly focus on portions of the Christian walk leaving others for their passionate interests in such things as angels.

In this book, Pastor Jeremiah directs the focus to the origin, purpose, and persona of angels using biblical references and previous works of such heroes of the faith as John Calvin, M.J. Erickson, Lewis Sperry Chafer, C.F. Dickason and J.M. Wilson as well as C. S. Lewis, Corrie Ten Boom, and specifically Dr. Billy Graham.

You may find that angels are not exactly what you perceived them to be.  In this book Dr. Jeremiah writes of the true characteristics of angels…

“Real angels have been and are and shall forever be awesome warriors for God, agents of his wrath and power. We don’t wonder in the least why people in the Bible who see angels are so often struck with terror at the sight.”

It is further clarified that angels are not to be worshiped, as some in our culture would have us to believe, giving a clear view of the importance of angels as messengers and / or warriors only and not deity (Revelation 19:10).

If you are one who has had an interest in studying the subject of angles in the bible, you will certainly enjoy this book and find a wealth of biblical based information and resources to further your study.

About the Author
Dr. David Jeremiah is the senior pastor of Shadow Mountain Community Church in San Diego, and founder of Turning Point Radio and TV Ministries.  The recipient of numerous prestigious awards for broadcast excellence, Dr. Jeremiah’s many books have garnered Gold Medallion awards and achieved bestseller status with The Wall Street Journal, USA Today, and The New York Times.

422699: Angels: Who They Are and How They Help... What the Bible Reveals Angels: Who They Are and How They Help… What the Bible Reveals

By Dr. David Jeremiah / Random House, Inc

# Paperback: 240 pages
# Publisher: Multnomah Books; Revised edition (December 22, 2009)
# Language: English
# ISBN-10: 1601422695
# ISBN-13: 978-160142269

Bible Study: Seeing Through the Lies – Chapter Three

Ladies Bible Study:  Seeing Through the Lies
Chapter Three


This weeks lesson was on making time for the important things and on the subject of feminism. After reviewing the questions at the end of the chapter and the additional discussion questions, we began our study.

A lively discussion arose from Vonda Skelton’s revised Proverbs 31 (rewriting it as if it were for men).  The point being that the Proverbs 31 woman is picture of perfection. No one woman could be all things in that chapter no more than any man.

Wrapping up last week, I raised the issue that was left in my mind in our discussion of Titus 2, especially verse 5, which instructs us as women …

‘To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.’

Let’s look at a few other versions…

“… so that no one will malign the word of God.” – NIV
“… that the word of God may not be exposed to reproach (blasphemed or discredited).” – AMP
“… that they will not bring shame on the word of God.” NLT
“… that the word of God may not be reviled.” ESV
‘… no one can say insulting things about God’s message.” CEV
“… so that God’s message will not be slandered.” HCSB
“… so that the word of God will not be dishonored.” NASB

We tabled this idea to continue with this week’s study, but these verses which plainly state that if we as wives are NOT self-control, NOT modest, NOT good homemakers, NOT good-natured, NOT adaptive or submissive to our husbands – if we are any of these NOT’s – we blaspheme the Word (the Jesus) of God.

That is pretty tough and something we left for personal reflection in order to move on to the study in Chapter Three. It will be interesting to see how the Holy Spirit searches the hearts of the Ladies Bible Study group to reconcile our behavior to Titus 2:5.

Prior to the class, I did some research on feminism from its origins to present day.  I reported what I’d learned when I considered the feminist core issue of ‘equal rights’  on one hand and what I read in James 5.  The comparison was quite interesting.

Hear what God tells us about those we work for who do not pay us a fair wage (regardless of gender)…

Come now, you rich, weep and howl for your miseries which are coming upon you. Your riches have rotted and your garments have become moth-eaten. Your gold and your silver have rusted; and their rust will be a witness against you and will consume your flesh like fire. It is in the last days that you have stored up your treasure!

Behold, the pay of the laborers who mowed your fields, and which has been withheld by you, cries out against you; and the outcry of those who did the harvesting has reached the ears of the Lord of Sabaoth.

You have lived luxuriously on the earth and led a life of wanton pleasure; you have fattened your hearts in a day of slaughter.  You have condemned and put to death the righteous man; and he does not resist you.
- James 5:1-6 (NASB)

Sounds to me like the wages your boss does unfairly withholds from you – this undisclosed amount of money – has a voice.   It is very similar to the blood of Abel that cried out to God from the ground after Cain murdered him.

What’s even more enlightening is that God further says (v4) that Jesus (the LORD of the Sabaoth – Matthew 12:8)  has heard you when you brought the issue to Him in prayer.

Retribution is coming to these task masters, but there is one condition. Read the last four words from the James passage – ‘…he does not resist you.

This means that to militantly demand a thing is counterproductive.  If we choose to fight a battle, God will certainly let us. But, if we read James 5 and we simply believe it, well – God can affect much more ‘corrective’ measures that the feminist movement ever dreamed of.

Doesn’t that leave you with a peace? Can’t you now go your job with a quiet confidence knowing that God, the Creator of heaven and earth, the most high God has got your back?

That’s all for this week. If you would like to read the research I found on feminism, find it HERE.  If you’ve labeled yourself as a feminist, you might want to read up on the subject.

Check back next week as we continue to ‘unmask the lies women believe.’

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Book Review of Chicken Soup for the Soul: Devotional Stories for Women: 101 Daily Devotions to Comfort, Encourage and Inspire Women by Susan Heim and Karen Talcott

Chicken Soup for the Soul: Devotional Stories for Women: 101 Daily Devotions to Comfort, Encourage and Inspire Women by Susan Heim and Karen Talcott is the newest is the CSS series and this one, being just for women, does not disappoint.

Susan Heim, Karen Talcott as well as a host of other contributors present these short inspirational packed stories that will bring perspective as you read each one.

In this day and age, high expectations are placed on women. Attempting to meet (and sometimes trying to exceed) these expectations can leave us feeling detached, removed, and distraught.

These 101 devotions that open with scripture, follow with a short, poignant story and end with a suggested prayer may be just what you need when you’ve superwoman-o-meter has maxed out.

Find yourself ‘Running From God’ at times, read Lorie Bibee’s story on page 35. You may find there is no such place.

Overwhelmed with your daily list of ‘To Do’s”, read Elizabeth Fenn’s story on page 66. You may find there is no mundane task that God is not willing help you with.

Or maybe you wake up tomorrow and have an rebellious streak. Read Susan Heim’s ‘Feeling Like Peter’s” story on page 168 that introducing the idea that you cannot be ‘estranged’ with God and playfulness has a definite place in all our lives.

As women, we need breaks from our busy lives. Each of us can spare a few minutes alone each day. When you come upon those few moments, grab this book and read a quick story.  You may find the rest of your day goes much better with your perspective back in alignment.

I recommend this for personal bible study as scripture is a part of each devotional or for group meetings when short messages are in order or simply for those time we need a gentle reminder of who we are in Christ.

Disclaimer
The review copy of this book was provided free of charge by the publisher and was donated to the library of Westwood Baptist Church.

# Paperback: 400 pages
# Publisher: Chicken Soup for the Soul; Original edition (October 6, 2009)
# Language: English
# ISBN-10: 1935096486
# ISBN-13: 978-1935096481

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Book Review of On My Own Now: Straight Talk from the Proverbs for Young Christian Women who Want to Remain Pure, Debtfree and Regretfree by Donna Lee Schillinger

If there is anyone thing young women need today, it is a good portion of God’s cleansing and protecting word.

In Donna Lee Schillinger’s book On My Own Now: Straight Talk from the Proverbs for Young Christian Women who Want to Remain Pure, Debtfree and Regretfree,’ that is exactly what is proclaimed.

These twelve chapters provide sound biblical advice to women of all ages but especially to younger women.  She includes such topics as real beauty, real friendships, real family and more.

She discusses from a ‘been there, done that’ perspective which gives much authority to what she teaches. It is one thing to teach the knowledge of a thing and quite another to teach from experience. And Donna Lee Schillinger does just that. Sometimes it is from painful experience.

The appearance and writing style is geared toward a young woman, though the precepts and examples from Proverbs would benefit women of all ages.  I am not sure if the author speaks in the style she writes but no matter, the style this book is written is perfectly suited for the young audience and adds to its appeal to young readers.

This would make a great YA bible study for the girls in your Youth group.  I recommend it highly.

About the Author
An award winning editor and publisher, Donna makes her writing debut with On My Own Now Straight Talk from the Proverbs for Young Christian Women who Want to Remain Pure, Debtfree and Regretfree. Visit her  at www.OnMyOwnNow.com. Donna lives in rural Arkansas with her husband John and children.

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By Donna Lee Schillinger / New Life Resources

# Paperback: 288 pages
# Publisher: The Quilldriver (February 17, 2009)
# Language: English
# ISBN-10: 0979163951
# ISBN-13: 978-0979163951

Bible Study: Seeing Through the Lies – Chapter Two


Ladies Bible Study:  Seeing Through the Lies
Chapter Two


This weeks lesson was on Beauty. After reviewing the questions at the end of the chapter and the additional discussion questions, we began our study on the subject of beauty.

What is the definition of beauty? Why it is what God calls beautiful and can be found in I Peter 3:3-4

“Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;  But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.”

What does this tell us?  That the one thing that God takes notice of, the one thing that He considers to be ‘of great price’ (KJV); or ‘which is so precious to God’ (NLT); or ‘that God delights in’ (MSG) is those four words – meek and quiet spirit.

We discussed that there is absolutely nothing about a belligerent woman that even comes close to thought of ‘beauty’. We considered how we looked after the last time we ‘pitched a fit.’  No amount of makeup, plastic surgery, or another kind of ‘nip/tuck’ could improve on the way we look in those moments for that is when our ugliness shows through.

It was mentioned that perhaps that is why God ‘delights in’ or considers ’so precious’ or places a ‘great price’ on the woman who realizes what it takes at times to have the inner beauty of the meek and quiet spirit.

We then compared the appearance of the Proverbs 7 woman to the appearance of the Proverbs 31 woman.  The proverbs 7 woman was loud, stubborn, and dressed to entice the ‘void of understanding’ men lurking about her house.

The Proverbs 31 woman speaks kindly, cares for her home and servants and the only fashion statement she makes provokes the words ’strength and honor’.  What a comparison!

We spoke briefly of the tendency for woman to do alot of talking.  The verse that cut us to the heart about excessive talking was from Proverbs 10:13

“In the multitude of words sin is not lacking,
But he who restrains his lips
is wise.”

The issue of flattery was then discussed and how the Proverbs 7 woman used it to ’slay’ her victim.  I reported on the study I did in flattery and how there is not one mention of it in the bible where it is shown to be a good thing.  Another eye opener for us as a group.

We moved to brainstorm the scripture mentioned in Chapter Two about the instruction given in Titus 2, that women should take every opportunity to teach the younger women in the church godly principles.

“The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.”

After talking of ways we, as woman, should instruct the younger women, I pondered the last phrase – ‘that the word of God be not blasphemed.’

That is pretty hard stuff.  It was perhaps good that I pondered it later for I am sure a grand discussion would come from these verses, especially on the fact that to NOT do these things, in affect, blasphemes or brings shame to God.

Perhaps we will table that one for next week.

What a wonderful Bible Study this is! It is certainly true what Vonda Skelton stated in Chapter I, this study is about the dispelling lies and she is straightforward in revealing the.   I look forward to next week.

Book Review of Shades of Blue by Karen Kingsbury

“Simply a must read for fiction lovers who would dare engage into the Truth about the Sanctity of Life, the consequences of bad choices, and God’s power to heal and reconcile us after the most atrocious of sins.”

Those who are pro-choice (better named parent’s choice as the child has no choice at all) would most likely not read this novel.

Planned Parenthood supporters would ridicule it (the last act of vestige of someone without a defensible position.)

And, those who have so lost their way that they herald abortion as a ‘woman’s reproductive right’, would simply dismiss it claiming it is for the unintelligent.

I am none of the above. I am a Christian and though the subject matter of this book, abortion, is quite hard to read sometimes, the focus is not about abortion debate. It is about the infinite power of a loving God to heal, reconcile, and forgive.

A young love that falls prey to a weak moment results in a decade of guilt, misery, sorrow and pain.  The story of Emma Landon and Brad Cutler is one of a lives changed by an irrevocable decision.

Can Jesus, a loving God, bring healing after an abortion?  Can we fall so deeply into sin that Jesus cannot reach us to forgive and heal?  If we cannot bear to remember our pain, face it and confess it, can we live our lives as if it did not happen?

Many other reviews are posted with the storyline of this novel so I won’t include it in this review. It is better that I should discuss the importance of this novel for how it provides a true picture of how lives are changed.

Abortion is not something discussed at family gatherings or other ‘friendly’ conversation and oftentimes men and women live with the hurt, the pain, the shame, and the guilt without an outlet to release them, even to God.  But, God is ever present waiting, watching, and wanting to forgive if we only read II Chronicles 7:14.

This story tells of the ‘mental conversations’, the ‘walking shame’, and the ‘lifetime of self-judgment’ that those who have shut down the life of their child at the altar of their own plans for the future truly feel. I have no doubt that even those who support abortion have these feelings but deny them. Perhaps, it is these feelings that drive their anger.

This is a book whose time has come. Few authors approach this topic. Reading of the author thoughts, I find that she might not have written it had God not prompted her, which is a miracle of God’s providence alone.

I recommend this book to men and women who would care to know the Truth about the inevitable consequences of abortion and those who have had an abortion as well because it give voice to their own thoughts and allows them to identify with the characters and prompts them to seek healing and forgiveness from the living, loving most high God.

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By Karen Kingsbury / Zondervan

# Paperback: 336 pages
# Publisher: Zondervan; 2 edition (October 20, 2009)
# Language: English
# ISBN-10: 031026622X
# ISBN-13: 978-0310266228

Book Review of Dug Down Deep: Unearthing What I Believe and Why It Matters by Joshua Harris

“A refreshing, encouraging look at orthodoxy and theology!”

There are authors whose names are on my list of ‘read without knowing anything about the content.’  Joshua Harris is on this list.

After first reading ‘I Kissed Dating Goodbye’ and after recommending it in a bible study for young women because of the widely unpopular idea of ‘walking in purity’, Joshua Harris’ thoughts on biblical relationships had my attention.

In ‘Dug Down Deep:  Unearthing What I Believe and Why It Matters’, I again connected with the principles heralded in this book.

Embrace orthodoxy, what a thought?  Consider your own theology, way too scary a thought.  Not so wild a thought to see orthodoxy or theology as ‘the study of God’, though.

Why would we as Christians not want to study God?  Why do those two words cause us to recoil? Those who claim the name of Jesus Christ and consider themselves to be Christians, wouldn’t they want to know, to study, to discover all they can about the King and Creator they claim to follow?  A resounding yes is the only answer.

Joshua Harris brings the thought that orthodoxy does matter. Your theology does matter. Doctrine and sound biblical truths do matter Why?  Because it is the basis of from which you will walk out your days if you truly are a Christian.

This work is written in a conversational, testimonial way.  The style is easy and understandable and rejects the idea that orthodoxy, theology, and doctrine are not meant for seminary only no more than the scrolls of the torah were written for the priests only.

Just reading over the chapters gives you an idea of the engaging approach to the study of “…awe-filled experience of truly knowing the living Jesus Christ.”

Some of the more interesting chapters for me were:

- My Rumspringa
We are all theologians the question is whether what we know of God is true.’

- God with a Bellybutton
Jesus is unique. And He came to accomplish something no one else could.’

- I Believe in the Holy Spirit
‘I longed to know that God was present, that I was doing more than singing songs to the ceiling.’

- Humble Orthodoxy
‘Here’s what deflates my arrogance faster than anything else; trying to live the truth I have.’

If you want a book that discusses the ’study of God’, then pick this one up – you will not be disappointed.  It is a good one to gift to a new Christian. Perhaps it will spark conversations and questions in which you both will need to search the scriptures to answer, which, of course, is the whole point.

I recommend this book highly.

About the Author
Joshua Harris is senior pastor of Covenant Life Church. He is best known for his runaway bestseller, I Kissed Dating Goodbye. His later books include Boy Meets Girl, Sex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is), and Stop Dating the Church. He and his wife, Shannon, have three children. Read more at www.waterbrookmultnomah.com

Disclaimer:
The review copy of this book was provided free of charge from Waterbrook Multnomah Publishers and was donated to the library of Westwood Baptist Church.

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By Joshua Harris / Random House, Inc

# Hardcover: 256 pages
# Publisher: Multnomah Books (January 19, 2010)
# Language: English
# ISBN-10: 1601421516
# ISBN-13: 978-1601421517

Martin Luther King, Jr. Words to Remember

Faith is taking the first step, even when you don’t see the whole staircase.

Hatred paralyzes life; love releases it. Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it. Hatred darkens life; love illuminates it.

I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality. That is why right, temporarily defeated, is stronger than evil triumphant.

In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.

It may be true that the law cannot make a man love me, but it can stop him from lynching me, and I think that’s pretty important.

Let no man pull you low enough to hate him.

Like an unchecked cancer, hate corrodes the personality and eats away its vital unity. Hate destroys a man’s sense of values and his objectivity. It causes him to describe the beautiful as ugly and the ugly as beautiful, and to confuse the true with the false and the false with the true.

Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.

Returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars… Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.

Ten thousand fools proclaim themselves into obscurity, while one wise man forgets himself into immortality.

We must learn to live together as brothers or perish together as fools.

Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.

I submit that an individual who breaks a law that conscience tells him is unjust, and who willingly accepts the penalty of imprisonment in order to arouse the conscience of the community over its injustice, is in reality expressing the highest respect for the law.The church was not merely a thermometer that recorded the ideas and principles of popular opinion; it was a thermostat that transformed the mores of society.

Now, I say to you today my friends, even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream. I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: – ‘We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.’

I submit to you that if a man hasn’t discovered something he will die for, he isn’t fit to live.

Nothing in all the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity.

Our scientific power has outrun our spiritual power. We have guided missiles and misguided men.

The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.

A genuine leader is not a searcher for consensus but a molder of consensus.

A nation or civilization that continues to produce soft-minded men purchases its own spiritual death on the installment plan.

A riot is the language of the unheard.

Everything that we see is a shadow cast by that which we do not see.

I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear.

I look to a day when people will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.

Life’s most persistent and urgent question is, ‘What are you doing for others?’

Means we use must be as pure as the ends we seek.

Never forget that everything Hitler did in Germany was legal.

Never succumb to the temptation of bitterness.

Seeing is not always believing.

Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.

The hottest place in Hell is reserved for those who remain neutral in times of great moral conflict.

There can be no deep disappointment where there is not deep love.

To be a Christian without prayer is no more possible than to be alive without breathing.

We will have to repent in this generation not merely for the vitriolic words and actions of the bad people, but for the appalling silence of the good people.

Book Review of The Male Factor: The Unwritten Rules, Misperceptions, and Secret Beliefs of Men in the Workplace by Shaunti Feldhahn

Women who work outside their homes or women who work with even one male coworker would do well to read Shaunti Feldhahn The Male Factor:  The Unwritten Rules, Misperceptions, and Secret Beliefs of Men in the Workplace.’

Why? Because is fundamental career research. Because some of your perceptions of life in the working world may need to be adjusted. Or, because the research found in this book and the advice offered could advance the cause of women in the workplace by untold measures.

The The Male Factor provides women results of an eight year study into men’s view of women in the workplace and the marketplace.  Truthfully, men and women are different but this has no bearing on equality.

Reading research on what men really think about the women they work with is as important as knowing a prospective client personality, interests, and goals prior to your initial meeting with a make or break client.

It goes beyond the personality classifications, these are hardwired differences silently residing in every man’s DNA and to ignore that fact is to view it from a purely feminist approach (which is what the majority of women tend to do) is tantamount to spitting in the wind for the good that does you.

This kind of information can have a direct bearing on your future, your career, and ultimately your pay.  These twelve chapters cause the reader to become aware that:
-It does matter if your emotions govern your personality. (Ch. 5)
-It does matter what you think, so keep that chip off your shoulder. (Ch. 7)
-It does matter what you choose as your dress code. (Ch. 10)
-It does matter that you get to the point. (Ch. 11)

I have great respect for Shaunti Feldhahn’s work. I’ve read her fiction and non-fiction books.  This is a handbook of collected feedback that a woman can use to first become aware of how she is perceived and to adjust her lifestyle and manage, and perhaps, reduce potential conflicts.

Read this research material and understand your coworker’s in an entirely different way.

To a add a personal note, my favorite part of the book was Chapter 12 – Putting it in Perspective: Counsel from Experienced Christian Women because it offered great tips from Christian women who have learned from these ‘unwritten rules’ working with them and not against them to foster success and long lasting working relationships.

I highly recommend this book for those women already in the workplace but especially college students preparing to careers.

Disclaimer:
The review copy of this book was provided by Waterbrook Multnomah Publishing free of charge and was donated to the library of Westwood Baptist Church.

421205: The Male Factor: The Unwritten Rules, Misperceptions, and Secret Beliefs of Men in the Workplace The Male Factor: The Unwritten Rules, Misperceptions, and Secret Beliefs of Men in the Workplace

By Shaunti Feldhahn / Random House, Inc

# Hardcover: 320 pages
# Publisher: Broadway Business (December 29, 2009)
# Language: English
# ISBN-10: 0385528116
# ISBN-13: 978-0385528115



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